We're All In | By Pastor Tullian Tchividjian
The word “Recovery” brings to most minds people in recovery programs for
things like alcohol or drug abuse, eating disorders, anger management,
sexual addiction, those sorts of things. Yet the truth is that we’re all
in recovery.
We’ve all been hurt and disappointed, we’ve all experienced the
disillusionment of unmet expectations, we all have fears and
insecurities, we’ve all felt unloved and rejected in some way. And
therefore, we all have unhealthy relationships with something or someone
we depend on to soothe the pain—to make us feel strong, secure, safe,
important, loved, in control. We’re all attached to something we think
we need to be happy and content.
Your addiction may not be alcohol, but it may be getting approval. It
may not be getting high, but it may be getting respect. It may not be
sex, but it may be getting attention for the way you look or for your
professional achievements. It may not be food, but it may be financial
stability. It may not be nicotine, but it may be feeling important. It
may not be social media, but it may be the need to be in control. All of
us are drunk on something. All of us need sobriety.
So, there’s two types of people in the world: people in recovery who
know they are and people in recovery who think they’re not. But if
you’re a human, you’re recovering. We’re all in.